Providing Helpful Accountability

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Written By Austin Cavaliere

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Excerpt: Providing Helpful Accountability

Course: Freedom From Pornography

Speakers: Brittni De La Mora

The Heart of Accountability

What does it truly mean to be a good accountability partner? It means extending grace, love, and kindness when the person you're supporting stumbles. It’s crucial to understand that individuals grappling with addiction are acutely aware of their missteps. They don't need us to point out the obvious.

Rejecting Shame

Instead, our role is to reject shame on their behalf. When they're drowning in feelings of inadequacy, remind them: 'You are not defined by your sin. You are a child of God.' Be a source of strength and encouragement, offering unwavering support.

Leading with Kindness

The Bible teaches us that God's kindness leads people to repentance. Let's mirror that kindness. Those seeking accountability have already acknowledged their shortcomings. They've reached out for help, recognizing their need for support.

Practical Steps: Embracing Grace-Filled Accountability

Be gracious, loving, and kind. Reject shame and affirm their identity in Christ. Be a source of strength and encouragement. Emulate God’s kindness.

Conclusion: Cultivating a Culture of Grace in Recovery

Accountability isn't about judgment; it's about fostering a culture of grace. It's about walking alongside someone, offering support and encouragement as they navigate their journey toward healing. By embodying God's kindness, we can empower others to break free from addiction and embrace their true identity in Christ.

 

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  • 1) See the outline below and check out other sections from the FFP course.

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  • 3) Connect with a Share The Struggle Coach for one-on-one support. Let’s face it, some of us have tried kicking this thing, and we’ve had no luck. It’s time to start looking toward forms of support that can help us see and feel the beautiful life God has in store for us.

 

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Part 1: Stories of Struggle

Session 1: What is the Struggle?

Session 2: The People

Part 2: The Roots of Dependency versus Design

Session 3: How Does This Dependency Begin?

Session 4: Biblical Roots

Part 3: Reconnecting and Reattaching

Session 5: Reconnecting With An Authentic God

Session 6: Working On Self

Session 7: Working With Others

Session 8: Healing With A Spouse

 

Share The Struggle Courses

Share the Struggle Courses are topical expert led video courses to help you understand life’s greatest struggles and provide you with tools for navigating them. Moreover, STS courses create a space for you to connect with others struggling with similar things, experience belonging, and encounter God’s nearness in a place of wilderness in your life (pain, confusion, healing journey). Want to start a group at your church? Reach out to us here to learn how.

 

What Share The Struggle Believes

Here at Share The Struggle we believe Jesus is present with us in the middle of our pain and mess, and it is in that place that we often experience and encounter Jesus most deeply.

We understand the unique challenges faced by Christians dealing with mental health. Our mission is to bridge the gap between faith and mental health support, providing a platform where individuals can find resources, coaching support and guidance, all tailored to their spiritual life and emotional needs.

We invite you to explore our resources, share your journey, and find the support you need to overcome the struggles you face.

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