Growing through Grief

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Course: Loss Of A Loved One

Speakers: Benji Horning, Jen Horning

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Finding Purpose and Hope: Sowing Redemption in the Landscape of Grief

As we approach the end of this journey together, we want to pause and sincerely honor you. The path of grief is often long and arduous, and your willingness to engage with it, to grow through the pain, is truly admirable. We believe deeply that God has a profound desire to meet you right in the heart of your sorrow.

Honoring Your Journey: There's Nothing "Wrong" With Grieving

It's crucial to remember that in the midst of grief, loss, and pain, there are no quick fixes. The emotions you are experiencing are not a sign that something is wrong with you; they are healthy responses to a significant loss.

The Gospel of Hope: Finding Purpose in Pain

Ultimately, it is the gospel that provides purpose to our pain and hope in our loss. As we look to the final chapters of Scripture, we are reminded of the ultimate ending of our story: a place where Jesus will wipe away every tear, where death and mourning will be no more, and where He declares, "I have made all things new" (Revelation 21:4-5).

Living in the In-Between: You Are Not Alone

As we navigate this "in-between" space, where the waves of grief may still feel overwhelming, please know that you are not alone. You have already come so far, and you possess the strength to continue. This journey offers an opportunity for your soul to deepen its roots, for your heart to grow larger, and for you to choose love and courage in the face of profound pain.

The Power of Redemption: Finding Beauty in Brokenness

I've found that intentionally looking for ways to sow and see redemption can be a powerful anchor in grief. God convicted me to keep a "redemption list" – a journal where I recorded moments of connection, instances where I could share my story and feel a sense of having survived, or any glimmer of beauty that emerged from the ashes of pain.

At one point, we even jokingly called ourselves "Team Backfire," recognizing that the very thing meant to cause devastation could, through God's grace, impact others' lives in meaningful ways.

If you are in the midst of unimaginable grief, actively seek out ways to see redemption at work. You have the power to speak redemption into the lives of others and to sow seeds of hope even in the darkest soil.

The Golden Faith: Enduring with God

Know that this intense and challenging phase you are navigating can be the "golden faith" of your life. While it feels incredibly costly and impossible at times, it is a testament to your enduring trust in God. I believe God looks upon this season with awe, witnessing your steadfastness in holding onto Him amidst the storm.

Loved, Not Alone: Continuing the Journey

Know that you are deeply loved and never truly alone. As you continue to press into your relationship with God, cultivate self-awareness, and lean on the supportive people around you, remember that some genuinely desire to help, and a God who has already demonstrated His boundless love and ability to sustain you.

If you like the content, you can continue in a few different ways…

• 1) See the outline below and check out other sections from the FFP course.

• 2) Take the full small group course to your church community! The first course your church runs is free! Reach out to us here to learn how.

• 3) Connect with a Share The Struggle Coach for one-on-one support. Let’s face it, some of us have tried kicking this thing, and we’ve had no luck. It’s time to start looking toward forms of support that can help us see and feel the beautiful life God has in store for us.

Loss Of A Loved One

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Session 1 

• Welcome to the Loss of a Love One Course

• Permissions 

• Prayer for the Journey 

• Our Story of Loss & Grief

Session 2 

• The Feelings, Thoughts, and Emotions 

• The Neuroscience of Loss 

Session 3 

• Finding Healthy Ways to Grieve 

• The Stages of Grief 

Session 4 

• Relationship with God

Session 5 

• Relationship with Self 

Session 6 

• Relationship with Others 

• Outro - Growing through Grief 

• Bonus - Walking with your Spouse and Children through grief

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