RESOURCES, ENCOURAGEMENT AND MORE
Welcome to the Share the Struggle Blog
Each week we bring you resources, insights, and stories that illuminate the path to mental and spiritual flourishing, guiding you on your journey towards wholeness and healing.
Archive of Posts
- Addiction 1
- Anxiety 26
- Bible 2
- Bible verses 1
- Christian Coaching 6
- Church 1
- Coaching 1
- Comfort 1
- Community 1
- Confusion 1
- Course: Freedom From Anxiety 19
- Course: Freedom From Pornography 24
- Course: Loss Of A Loved One 13
- Course: More Than Your Past - Shedding Shame and Guilt 10
- Course: Moving Through Trauma 21
- Depression 4
- Fear 4
- Forgiveness 1
- God 1
- Grief 17
- Helping Helpers 23
- Identity 1
- Isolation 1
- Jesus Christ 1
- King David 1
- Leader Training 23
- Listening 1
- Loving Difficult People 2
- Mental Health 3
- Mental Health Disorder 1
- Mental Health Programs 1
- Mental Health Struggle 1
- Overcoming Fear 1
- Paul 1
- Pornography 25
- Scripture 1
- Shame 12
- Stress 1
- Therapy 1
- Trauma 29
- Where is God in my Struggle? 1
- relationship 1
Family of Origin & Wounds
Sometimes, anxiety isn't just about problem-solving; it's a protector, shielding a deeper wound. It manifests as a pervasive inability to experience joy or presence, even amidst positive circumstances.
Lowering Stress in the Nervous System
Before we delve deeper, let's add another valuable tool to your grounding toolkit – a simple tapping technique. These activities can be used in moments of stress, overwhelm, or even as a gentle way to start or end your day, helping you anchor yourself in a state of calm.
Our Three Primary Responses to Trauma
When we experience trauma, regardless of whether it's a significant, life-altering event ("Big T" trauma) or a series of smaller, yet impactful experiences ("little t" trauma), our minds and bodies often engage in three key survival responses: fragmentation, dissociation, and isolation.
How Trauma Functions in our Emotions, Brain, and Body
We've discussed how past trauma can continue to affect our present lives. To move forward, we need to increase our ability to process these experiences without feeling overwhelmed.
Breath and Bilateral Stimulation
Engaging with the topic of trauma can understandably bring up difficult feelings. Your body's natural response might be to resist these emotions as a form of self-protection.
Unpacking Trauma
When we hear the word "trauma," many different images and ideas might come to mind. Some might think of war veterans, survivors of violence, or those who've faced natural disasters or near-death experiences.
From a Place of Calm
We recognize that as you engage with this course, you might encounter moments where difficult emotions rise to the surface. Perhaps you notice your heartbeat quickening, you start to feel sweaty, fidgety, uncomfortable, or agitated.
For Those Of You Who
We understand that by choosing to take this course, you're carrying burdens, experiences that have weighed heavily on your heart. Our deepest hope from the very beginning is that this space will be a sanctuary for you.
Guardrails and Grace for the Journey
You've taken a significant step by engaging with this material, recognizing its importance for your life. We're here to guide you in connecting your past experiences with your present challenges.