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Excerpt: You Are Welcome Here - More Than Your Past Session 1

Course: More Than Your Past - Shedding Shame & Guilt

Speakers: Benji Horning, Ryan Miller


Unmasking Shame: Finding Jesus in Our Hidden Stories

Shame often attaches itself to the parts of our lives we try to conceal, yet it can inadvertently define us. Our aim is to help you identify these hidden areas and invite Jesus into them, discovering His presence in those very spaces. Just as Jesus sought out the shamed woman at the well, He desires to restore our worth and rewrite our stories, addressing not just the visible aspects of our lives but also the unseen ones.

Jesus: Our Understanding and Shame-Bearing Savior

Jesus intimately understands shame. Scripture reveals He moved towards the ashamed and bore the weight of shame Himself. He knows the feelings of unworthiness, isolation, and the yearning for connection. His earthly ministry was marked by encounters where He directly addressed shame, offering healing and restoration.

Consider Jesus' interaction with the woman at the well or the woman caught in adultery. He met them in their shame, offering acceptance and dignity. In the same way, Jesus meets us in our hidden places, asking, "Where are your accusers?" offering freedom from condemnation.

Finding Our Worth: The Prodigal Welcome of God

The story of the prodigal son beautifully illustrates God's unconditional love and welcome. The father's extravagant acceptance mirrors the Greek word proslambanomai, a deep, holistic embrace of the entire person, flaws and all. This is the welcome Jesus extends to us.

Like the lost coin, the lost sheep, and the lost son, we are deeply valued by God. He pursues us relentlessly and rejoices in our return. Even when we feel unworthy, like the prodigal son returning in shame, the Father runs towards us, restoring our dignity and welcoming us back into the family.

A Prayer for Unmasking Shame and Receiving Love

Let us now open our hands as a posture of receiving love, perhaps in a way you haven't before. Bring to mind the lies you've believed or that have been spoken over you. We bring these to the foot of the cross.

Jesus, we pray for each person to experience Your embrace, the feeling of Your robe wrapped around them. Lord, reveal the lies they believe and the hidden spaces where they haven't fully allowed You to enter. Show them where shame manifests in their lives, hindering connection and their calling.

Just as the father ran to the prodigal son, reveal Your pursuit and wrap them in Your love. Take their shame and lies upon Yourself, knowing that You died with them and resurrected them to fullness. Lord, grant them a deep knowing of Your proslambanomai, Your complete and unconditional welcome. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

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